Well, being gay in India and having homosexual sex is approved now.
Gay sex seems easy- give, receive and relieves. But it is far complicated as in words. When you decide to open about your sexuality, ready to have sex with someone with the same gender. It's good rather than just using gay sex toy.
But, beginner and first timer in gay sex cannot know even what is right and what is wrong to do? Well. There is no guideline to have gay sex but yes you should get the right knowledge.
Gay sex is especially the involvement of anal sex. Having anal sex is not natural.
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Emotion
When it comes to gay sex, some of gay involve only in physically, without experience the emotional connection.
Every gay people should experience the emotional bonding with the partner before having sex. Don’t let social boundaries to spoil your sex. Do not think about social reasons. It is a play of two plays.
If a gay or gay couple’s feel desire to have sex with the same gender, do not feel shame. You should stick to your stronger physical or emotional feelings.
Prepare top or bottom
The top and bottom is same as heterosexual sex. Isn’t it common to know that? Where one partner penetrates and another partner receive penetration
Thing to consider is, your partner is top or bottom? How to be a top or bottom? Do you prepare for either? Does your partner is prepared too for both?
yes! top and bottom is like dominant and submissive. or maybe the closest one will be like the confident gay and the panicked gay.
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It is good to prepare and discuss with the partner. It is the best tip to understand both roles to have comfortable gay sex. Although it required a physical and emotional connection.
You can initiate to talk about your way of preference.
Foreplay (Types of gay sex)
The anal sex is not the only option among gay sex. Not all gay men like anal sex. There are many types of gay sex. If you are preparing to have anal sex, then you can try such things as foreplay to create a comfortable environment.
Or you can perform such types of intercourse too.
Intercrural sex
Intercrural sex is types of non-penetrative sex, where the penis is placed between the partner’s thighs to thrust. The thrusting movement with penis to another’s genital areas leads to arousing and pleasure.
Frottage
It is quite famous in the gay couples. It is non-penetrative types of sex with disparaged the practice of anal sex. Frot means to rub, it often seems in heterosexual couples too. It is a practice where people rub each other body without penetration either naked or fully covered. It is not the same things as masturbation, it is mutual practice.
In male to male sexual activity, both gay couples involved in the direct penis to penis contact.
If you don’t have a problem with anal sex or want penetrative sex, so you should first get knowledge about it.
Basic Knowledge
If you have enough knowledge of the penetration or anal, it’s good. But know deep.
Anal cannot open as wide as women’s vagina. It is narrow and has hard tissues.
However, it can be said that the size of a person’s anus is open up to 3.5 to4cm. So it is not the size where the penis can enter easily.
Rectum is the last part of the large intestine. The larger part of the rectum is anal. The rectum is the part, where the penis put inside during the anal sex. It is about 20cm in length for an adult. Basically, it has the capacity to accept the penis.
Let try anal sex easily!!
Preparation: Before anal sex, preparation is very important. You need to wash off the filthy particles from the anal and intestine whether you are having sex with partner or all alone. The procedure is the follow.
Enema
There are two types of enema procedure that you can use, one is enema material and another is enema shower.
Most of the peoples use enema shower, it is easy to use and good for clean.
Get a suitable size enema shower from the market. You can choose an online shop. Almost every sex toy site sell anal enema, as growth in a number of gay acceptance in India.
- Fill the enema with the hot lukewarm water.
- Insert it in the anus and eject hot water into anus.
- Hold the position for some time and take out all the dirt.
- Repeat the process for several times to clean the anus perfectly.
Loosen the anal tissues
It is very important to loosen the anal tissues before inserting in the penis.
As we know that anal hole is not like vagina, it is very narrow. It is highly risky to insert the penis without loosening it.
Relax your anus by yourself or with the help of your partner.
At first, let them massage the around the anal to make it comfortable, then put one finger. DO it until feel relaxed or aroused. Anal masturbation technique that works is, make a circle with a finger inside the anus. Next, out finger and circle..... Finally, aim at three and do it with penis sex toy if you are using. The process will be the same for use of butt plugs or something else.
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In addition, it is crazy to massage the anus with high nail fingers. It is dangerous because it hurt the entrance of anal and inside of anal.
Important point to have guy sex
Be sure to use a condom over the penis. Yes, it is not vagina sex. None of you, not get pregnant with the ejaculation of semen. But it is not safe to use. You should always use a condom in every anal play.
Most important use lubricant. Note the word lubricant is as essential as anal penetration for you. Anal sex is not achieved by the without lubricant. Put plenty of lotion, insert slowly over time. Apply lubricant every time when you are feeling pain and hard.
Let’s interrupt sex if anal is broken
If anal break during insertion means it seems blood is releasing that means its time to stop the sex for the same day. It is very harmful to keep penetrate the penis in the bleeding anus.
Of course, it is more painful to keep doing this. But it is also risky to have sexually transmitted diseases.
Protect yourself from STI (Sexual Transmitted infection)
- Always use a condom.
- Be monogamous, means avoid switch of a partner. Stick to one at a time.
- Get a vaccine of Human Papillomavirus Vaccine (HPV). It is associated with the anal cancer and available for men up to the age of 26.
- Get HIV tested and your partner tested.
