- Do you afraid to have anal sex for the first time?
- Do you want to know how to do anal sex?
If you have such question for a better anal sex anal life, then I have a quick guide that make it more smooth and relief for you.
Contents
Preparation of anal sex
Preparation is must and first step to have a comfortable anal sex. Get ready for anal sex with anal cleaning
Anal douching
It is technique of anal cleaning. Anal douching need douching tool, that goes inside the anal and take out the dirt form the anal.
A filthy anal never give you comfortable anal sex. Clean your anal and intestine with anal douching. There are many enema are also available in medical store. You can try enemas too.
Bath
After anal douching, take a bath. It is hygienically good to clean yourself after cleaning anal, so that you get fresh from inside as well as from outside.
Relax
Relax is most important for your anal sex every time. If you get afraid of anal sex, your anal sphincter will get tighten and close. So you won’t able to enter inside it. Make yourself relax and comfortable.
To relax yourself, you can try good music and good fragrance or anything that make you feels relaxed. Do not feel stress about your first anal sex.
Of course it might be exciting to have anal sex for the first time. Feeling exciting is okay but do not get feel stressed or afraid about it. It is gone be easy for you step by step.
Anal should be disguised
Now, the intestine is clean and shower is taken, it times to insert it...that’s a totally a mistake. It can be common in the vagina intercourse but unlike female vagina, anal cannot be ready for insertion until you loose up the muscles. DO not enter the hole without loosened well with fingers. Before going for fingering it is good to stimulate the anal hole with mouth.
Rimming- Anal rimming or rim job is technique to stimulate and loosen the anal muscles. The licking, sucking by mouth over the anal is fun after step 1. Now you are ready and clean, do not feel filthy about it. It is quite famous stimulation that many of peoples live to do in anal sex. Know why?
Fingering- After rimming of without rimming, you can start fingering in the anal. Lubricant and finger sack are used at this time. You should also use it.
Finger sack is like glove for the finger and feels like condom. If you do not have finger sack, then you can choose confirm instead. Just wear condom on the finger.
Lotion is suitable that it harder to dry and has good sliding property for anal sex.
Method
First, wear finger sack or condom over the index or middle finger and apply plenty of lubricant on the anal.
Slowly insert your index, fingers and then gently unscrew it in the hole. After a while, if you feel loosen enough, put your middle finger further and loosen it more.
At that time, you are in anal development and already experience some loosen in the muscle so can try two fingers smoothly. If you entered smoothly without any problem or pain, its good.
Wait, it does not means that you are ready to bigger insertion like dick or some toy. Once you have two fingers, make some movement in inside with fingers. Take your time. No not hurry with anal. Let use lot of lubricant in your first time anal sex.
Let caress enough
When you come here, anal has relaxed enough.
If your partner of your having anal sex seriously for the first time, it’s good to introduce anal toys at first. The size of dick is bigger for the first time or you definitely need a more time.
Anal beads and beginner anal toys in thin and narrow shape can help you. You can find such anal toys easily online.
Anal beads: Anal bead is toy that has series of series with string. It gives good start to the beginners.
Narrow anal toys: You can choose in of anal toys that look you narrow and easy for you. It can be vibrating or non-vibrating, it is totally on you.
Remember, it is good to introduce anal toys, but only new anal toys. If you are new and you don’t have anal toys, I recommended you to go with new one only. Anal is place of many bacteria that leads to sexually transmitted disease easily. Do not insert someone else anal toy in your anal.
While using anal toys, stimulate your other erogenous zones like nipple, vagina, clitoris, penis, balls or etc. Anyway, it is also important for anal sphincter. It will help you to loosen more.
Let take it and out slowly
Now, you are ready to allow dick inside.
Add lot of lubricant and finally insert the penis. Keep it slow like the whole process.
Well, there are many men who have anal sex to eliminate the pregnancy rate(in women) but still be sure to wear the condom.
As I said anal leads to STI easily. It will not gone work if you get serious dieases like HIV in exchange of temporary pleasure and little careless. Stick to the use of condom in every ass fuck.
Anal sex position.
Remember, the anal and female genitals are situated at completely different place. So it is easy to enter from the back or missionary position or rare position. You can choose any anal sex position according to comfortable.
But if you ask me about
Which is most suitable position?, then I will say Rare Position.
Insert slowly while watching the situation of partner, do not move immediately after enter.
Keep it gentle and move gently inside. Use lubricant continuously if you feel dry and likewise reach to successful anal sex even at the first time.
