If you are any of gay website like Grindr, tinder, etc, you much heard of Top, bottom and versatile either someone asked you or someone tell you. This is a common role that gay couples use to find their partners.

This is a basic point to be discussed at some point in every gay relationship.

It is not unusual for gay men to label themselves with these terms whether you are doing or just hooking up. It is really important to find out first because if you intend to be date and gone be a serious relationship. Being top, bottom or versatile specific that you are sexually compatible or not with each other.

Let’s first clear about whats these terms mean if you do not know about.

Different gay sexual roles

Toy gay, bottom gay or versatile gay are somehow like BDSM partner. In which one partner is act as dominant and another act as submissive likewise in gay relationship, one partner is top and another one is bottom. It refers the same. Remember such gay roles are not restricting to the anal sex.

It is acted by two partners, top, bottom and versatile role are also eligible for oral intercourse in every possible gay sex position.

Top gay

Top gay is an active partner in complete intercourse like dominant. Top gay is one who is a giver in anal sex or oral sex. The term “top” is used when men have sex with men. As we know some of the straight men also like to involve in the anal sex. They also consider as a top.

Bottom gay

Bottom gay is labelled as submissive, who receive the penis. The oral bottom is also a term that it links to the bottom partner when they perform oral sex to the penis. They considered as a bottom because they are receiving top’s penis in their mouth.

Versatile gay

Versatile gay is one who performs and enjoy both the role, being topping and bottoming or being dominant and submissive.

You will see two terms in Versatile too.

Versatile Top: Someone who prefers to act as a top(giver), but can willing to act as bottom too.

Versatile Bottom: Someone who prefers to act as bottom(receiver), but can willing to act as a top too.

Why gay labelled yourself in the first place in every gay relationship?

In straight male and female relationship, they already generalise their role and aware that they are sexually compatible.

But in gay couples, to find a perfect sexual compatible partner it is good to label yourself in the first place. It is difficult to determine the sexual compatibility between the two men without knowing each other performance. As I said, it is must be discussing point in every gay relationship at some stages, then why don't in the first place.

Do gay couples take turn in sex?

Many of gay are limited to their act and not negotiate with their role in their gay relationship, so you will see they specific themselves top or bottom. They do not like to take turns and love to penetrate and being penetration. If you no one asking you about your role, you should ask it and find your preferable match.

Whether the versatile gay take turn according to their needs and enjoyment. But it's rear that they take turn during the same session. Well, it is done for your health too. The penetration one after another can increase the STI problem in men.

Versatile partners discuses their preference before having sex. Likewise, it is sorted and safer for both too.

To take a turn in sex or not, it predefines. If you are new in gays sex like most of Indian gay, then you should know your needs and labelled themselves to finds a suitable partner.